Was it a Rape or my Overreaction that Made Me Hate Men

In the Summer holiday, a friend planned a visit to my house for a few days. We were a family friend and have been friends our entire lives and I have always looked at him like a brother. Everything was fine until that night. I woke up in the middle of the night and felt he was touching me. I told him to stop and he immediately did. I was scared and confused so I just shut my eyes and tried to pretend it didn’t happen and then again after a few minutes, he tried to do it again. This time I went and slept upstairs. I told my parents what happened and they told his parents and it got dealt with. It’s been six months and I am still bothered by the whole thing. I have grow